keepin' it real w/ stef williams

Basically. (Taken with instagram)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY FAVORITE BOYFRIEND EVER!

You are beyond wonderful and incredibly good looking and for that I thank you for being a part of my life. You make every day awesome and I hope the rest of mine are filled with you.

[I’m sorry babe.. now livingsocial and the Chive have both failed me in my quest for birthday glory! Too much funny. Not enough boobs.]

I LOVE YOU!

Note to America: It is inappropriate to solicit personal time with a member of the opposite sex that is not single or related to you without purpose or justification.

Especially in open forums and social networking sites.

We all know this. We all know as that person’s significant other this would bother us. Why do we still behave this way? Better yet, why do so many people wonder why they’re single? The answer to this question can be found in their complete lack of concern for others, the greed and arrogance that fuels them to believe they are more deserving of what appears to be a good significant other, a destructive nature or maybe just a complete lack of common sense or courtesy.

Look, if you go to a store where things are for sale and you try to buy something, no one’s going to say anything. But if you go to someone’s house acting like everything’s for sale and start placing bids, they may not react very well.

Only child issues.. Cop out? Maybe. Truth? Do you think I like getting pissed about stuff that doesn’t matter? My boyfriend wouldn’t cheat on me. I know that. He’s a good guy and I’m not just saying that. I believe anyone that knows him would vouch for how great of a person he is. If he wanted to be with someone else, he’d break up with me. He is not the problem. In fact, he’s extra awesome because I can talk to him about this and any other seemingly awkward issue caused by random moments of insecurity.

The problem is simply disrespect.

Maybe I’m inhumanly considerate but I think about the reactions to my actions. And in terms of my guy and lesbian friends, I keep it as chummy as possible all of the time but especially in public forums. No old inside jokes, pet names or 1 on 1 hangout requests.

1. I have a boyfriend, I’m not trying to put myself out there in any way that would make him uncomfortable or bring in advances.

2. I don’t want anyone that my friend is potentially talking to or with to think there’s something going on that isn’t or to worry at all, even if they don’t take it the wrong way there is usually someone around to be like “who’s that bitch sayin this to yo man?!?!”

This is not “caring too much about what people think.” This is thinking about other people’s feelings (someone who might matter to someone you care about, thus they’re someone you care about by association) and that is a great thing that the majority of us choose not to participate in. Which makes the majority of us jerks. Don’t c-block your buds, guys… that is a major life foul. C-block your friends and life will c-block you. Remember that.

I’m done with my rant.. it was a weak rant because I’m not upset, I just felt this needed to be stated.

Love always & forever,

Me xo

So excited! First I’ve ever found! (Taken with instagram)

Goodbye fire escape (Taken with instagram)

omg.. cute city usa

Best photos of the week (61 photos) - BOTW-67

not the first time I’ve seen this but I’m sharing it. I freakin love kids!

We’re in love. (Taken with instagram)

She’s part parrot (Taken with instagram)

Between 5 and 7 AM I like it here (Taken with instagram)